For Men Only "How to Stay Faithful"

It had taken me a while to get it but I finally got it and I am going to share this with you from a man to my fellow men. I'm not going to come at you with a religious approach. I'm not going to come at you with anything that will make you question your moral compass.

We as men are only driven by three things and they come in this order. Food, sex and sleep. We work hard on the job for money to buy food because we got to eat. We work hard to buy clothes, cars and jewelry to find a good woman to court so we can have sex and the most important part, we sign leases and take on mortgages to have a comfortable place to sleep.

When we find ourselves teaming up with a woman then we have a lot to lose if things go south. Food, sex and especially sleep will not be comfortably achieved if there is a breakup or divorce due to your infidelities.

As men we become moving targets when we're on top of the game. With a good woman by our sides we walk tall, proud and strong. That look of confidence is like a woman on her period swimming in a shark tank.

A lot of us put ourselves in a position to cheat on our spouses because when it comes to food, sex or sleep the brain can't function properly. So a woman asks you to come over just as a friend or asks you for a ride home because her car is inconveniently (conveniently) in the shop...the brain between your legs knows the coded language, the one in your head is turned off. You know the signals of that conversation that you shouldn't even be having. 

A conversation leads into a truth or dare, the dare is taken and the truth is told. Then the build up. She's looking into your eyes, you're looking into her's and then a hug turns into a kiss. The kiss becomes more physical and now you're in the point of no return. Then you get to your destination and that blood rushes back into your head and common sense takes over. Your brain is awake and asks you in conviction, "What did I just do?"

As men, we bust a nut and automatically feel regret. There have been times in my single years where when after I bust a nut, I look around and think to myself, "Man, I just paid 89.99 plus tax for this hotel room that I could've spent on some clothes, shoes, gas or video games."

As I've stated earlier, when we as men team up with a woman, we have a lot to lose. Baby batter on the brain disables you from assessing the risk before taking the invite to go into that woman's house that you had given a ride home. Baby batter on the brain disables you from even thinking of the risks involved in having a woman that's not your wife or your girlfriend in your passenger seat in the first place.

The secret to keeping a sharp and sober head is simple! Masturbate! Where men ridicule each other for masturbating, masturbation should be a part of your daily routine just like eating a good diet and exercising. If you are in a monogamous relationship and this is something that both you and your spouse agreed to then honor it!

Sex is sex and love is love but when you have to hide something you've done then you violate that trust that comes with love. If you aren't practicing some form of birth control then this applies to you even more! As men we know the best time to conceive a child is when you are sexually deprived and all of a sudden get it in!

We all as men know that the things that your woman had done for you that she is not going to do for the long haul. No, she's not going to give you that blazing head that got your attention during the honeymoon phase. As a matter of fact the honeymoon phase was over when all of that stopped. Once you become committed then you look forward to birthdays just so you can have it like you had it during the honeymoon phase.

We all as men know that after the honeymoon phase that she's not going on social media telling the world how lucky she is because she landed you. She's not going to stroke your ego and make you feel like Bruce Wayne even though you have a Peter Parker bank account.

That strange woman that's stroking your ego and appealing to you outside of your commitment is going through a honeymoon phase as well. She's not going to want to be your side piece forever. Nope! She don't even want to be the side piece to begin with. She sees what your Woman have with you and wants that for herself and not realizing that if you give that to her then your integrity as a committed man is shot anyhow!

Dude, I won't knock you for masturbating! As a matter of fact do it often. The sensation that you can give yourself is just as good if not better than you can get from stepping outside of your relationship and risking losing a good friend, your money and your relationship that you've built with your spouses' friends and family.

Don't blame lack of sex in the house for not being faithful. You will realize with a clear head that you can either avoid arguments or compromise in situations where arguments may occur. That's where masturbation comes in...not alcohol, not drugs and damn sure not stepping outside of your relationship.

For you single men, masturbation is key. Remember, MASTURBATE before you date! If you go out on a date and you are thinking clearly then you can be all in the moment. You can see the red flags that you would want to avoid. You won't overlook flaws that down the line can cost you money and heartbreak. If she's a respectable lady then she will be interested just for you seeing her as a person and not a potential fuck for the night.  If you do get lucky on the first date, you will also have stamina and give her a night she will always remember.